The Opinionated Old Man

Wednesday, September 7, 2016

Happy Birthday, Buddy Holly!

My wife and I were on our way to Texas from Alabama last week. Looking for something to help pass the time – catchy, upbeat music with good stories and fun to sing along with, I flipped through our short list of options. I saw Buddy Holly’s “Greatest Hits” album in the stack. Perfect! Charles Hardin (Buddy) Holley was born September 7, 1936 in Lubbock, TX. The album includes eighteen of his favorites, all of which you’ve heard many times if you are from my generation. He wrote happy, catchy music. At least that’s what I thought. I started noticing that song after song, rather than being love stories, were mostly anything but. Having the opportunity to listen to all the songs back-to-back with nothing else to think about other than the occasional poor driver, I recognized this about his music for the first time. Based on the lyrics, I concluded that he must have been a very lonely young man, repeatedly failing in his attempts to share his abundant love with a girl. I started counting. Of the eighteen songs, all but three tell stories of unrequited love, lost love, outright rejection, denial and heartbreak. How could that many sad songs not tell a story about their writer/singer?

“I’m Looking for Someone to Love” and “Raining in my Heart” suggest by their title that they are not happy songs – and they are not. But most of the song titles, like “I’m Gonna Love You Too” and “True Love Ways” hide the true nature of the stories they tell. In “I’m Gonna Love You, he sings of losing his girl to another guy and of his optimistic expectations of “you’re gonna say you miss me, you’re gonna say you’ll kiss me, you’re gonna say you’ll love me, I don’t care what you told me.” With “True Love Ways”, the writer tells of true love waiting in the bye and bye. It is all written in the future tense and hoping that the object of his love would someday realize the awaiting joy for both. The melody and tempo of the song suggest sadness.

It gets worse. In the optimistic title of “Maybe Baby”, there is little optimism with lines like “it’s funny honey, you don’t care - you never listen to my prayer -, maybe you’ll love me some day.” And “you are the one who makes me sad.”

In “Words of Love” it is questionable if he ever heard the elusive words of love “whispered soft and true. Tell me how you feel - tell me you love me. Let me hear the words I want to hear.”

With “Not Fade Away”, Buddy pledges love “as big as a Cadillac” but his declaration of “I try to show it but you’re drivin’ me back - your love for me has gotta be real” and “I’ll tell you how it’s gonna be - you’re gonna give your love to me” brings into question whether it ever happens.

The singer’s desperation and futility are most clear when he sings “You say we’re through. I’m lookin’ for someone to love. Baby if you’re not here, I don’t care – I’m looking for someone to love - Playin’ the field all day long, since I found out I was wrong…” This song expresses perhaps more than any of his other recordings the desperation to find someone to share his immense love with, which one could speculate was in part responsible for his asking his future wife to marry him on their first date.

All the heartbreak is met with denial with “That’ll Be the Day”: “you say you’re gonna leave me – you know it’s a lie - well, that'll be the day, when you say goodbye - yes, that'll be the day, when you make me cry.”

Perhaps the most heart-wrenching song of all is “Raining In My Heart”. “The weather man doesn’t know you’ve gone away… Oh misery, misery! What’s gonna’ become of me… soon these tears are bound to show.” Sad song accented with sad music.

In other songs, Buddy is dreaming that love will surely come his way, feeling blue over loosing Peggy Sue, seeing his love come tumbling down in a fool’s paradise, asserting without a doubt that his lost lover will be sorry for the times she’s lied and made him cry, all of which makes his heart grow cold and old.

But thankfully in the end, he found it “so easy to fall in love” with wife, María Elena Santiago. Did she become the reason for his asking: “Heartbeat - Why do you miss when my baby kisses me?”

The story had a happy ending, even if for a short time. His was a tragic end to a bright, promising future, having recorded over 50 songs in his short career, many of which he wrote. With his prolific cranking out music, he recorded all eighteen songs in the “Greatest Hits” collection in less than two years. His influence on Rock and Roll was profound. Notable among those his work influenced were John Lennon and Paul McCartney who later formed The Beatles, Bob Dylan, Mick Jagger, Keith Richards, Don McLean, Elton John, Bobby Vee and Bruce Springsteen. In spite of the undertones of sadness in his work, he recorded some of the best music of all time, and the world lost an amazing talent much too soon. Today is his birthday, and he would have been 80 years old.

Buddy Holley - September 7, 1936 – February 3, 1959

References

Wikipedia - Buddy Holly
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Buddy_Holly

Buddy Holly – Greatest Hits, liner notes, MCA Records, 1995

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Quotable quotes

In 1794, when Congress appropriated $15,000 to assist some French refugees, James Madison, the father of our Constitution, stood on the floor of the House to object, saying, "I cannot undertake to lay my finger on that article of the Constitution which granted a right to Congress of expending, on objects of benevolence, the money of their constituents."

James Madison

"No, my friend, the way to have good and safe government, is not to trust it all to one, but to divide it among the many, distributing to every one exactly the functions he is competent to. Let the national government be entrusted with the defence of the nation, and its foreign and federal relations; the State governments with the civil rights, laws, police, and administration of what concerns the State generally; the counties with the local concerns of the counties, and each ward direct the interests within itself. It is by dividing and subdividing these republics from the great national one down through all its subordinations, until it ends in the administration of every man's farm by himself; by placing under every one what his own eye may superintend, that all will be done for the best. What has destroyed liberty and the rights of man in every government which has ever existed under the sun? The generalizing and concentrating all cares and power into one body..."

Thomas Jefferson to Joseph C. Cabell, 2 Feb.

"God grants liberty only to those who love it, and are always ready to guard and defend it." -Daniel Webster

"1. It is hard to imagine a more stupid or more dangerous way of making decisions than by putting those decisions in the hands of people who pay no price for being wrong.

2. Much of the social history of the Western world, over the past three decades, has been a history of replacing what worked with what sounded good.

3. Mystical references to society and its programs to help may warm the hearts of the gullible but what it really means is putting more power in the hands of bureaucrats.

4. Socialism in general has a record of failure so blatant that only an intellectual could ignore or evade it.

5. One of the common failings among honorable people is a failure to appreciate how thoroughly dishonorable some other people can be, and how dangerous it is to trust them.

6. The big divide in this country is not between Democrats and Republicans, or women and men, but between talkers and doers.

7. The most fundamental fact about the ideas of the political left is that they do not work. Therefore we should not be surprised to find the left concentrated in institutions where ideas do not have to work in order to survive.

8. The problem isn't that Johnny can't read. The problem isn't even that Johnny can't think. The problem is that Johnny doesn't know what thinking is; he confuses it with feeling.

9. What is ominous is the ease with which some people go from saying that they don't like something to saying that the government should forbid it. When you go down that road, don't expect freedom to survive very long."

10. More than a century and a half of ignoring downturns in the economy never produced a depression as deep or as long as the 1930s depression, with its many federal interventions, first under Herbert Hoover and then under Franklin D. Roosevelt."

Thomas Sowell

"“It ain’t what you don’t know that gets you into trouble. It’s what you know for sure that just ain’t so.” Mark Twain

"There is no constitutional authority for two-thirds to three-quarters of what Congress does." - Walter E. Williams, Constitutional Awakening, 3/24/2010

"The care, therefore, of every man's soul belongs unto himself, and is to be left unto himself. But what if he neglect the care of his soul? I answer: What if he neglect the care of his health or of his estate, which things are nearlier related to the government of the magistrate than the other? Will the magistrate provide by an express law that such a one shall not become poor or sick? Laws provide, as much as is possible, that the goods and health of subjects be not injured by the fraud and violence of others; they do not guard them from the negligence or ill-husbandry of the possessors themselves. No man can be forced to be rich or healthful whether he will or no." - John Locke, A Letter concerning Toleration, 1689

"Socialism is a philosophy of failure, the creed of ignorance, and the gospel of envy, its inherent virtue is the equal sharing of misery.” - Winston Churchill

"To be GOVERNED is to be watched, inspected, spied upon, directed, law-driven, numbered, regulated, enrolled, indoctrinated, preached at, controlled, checked, estimated, valued, censured, commanded, by creatures who have neither the right nor the wisdom nor the virtue to do so. To be GOVERNED is to be at every operation, at every transaction noted, registered, counted, taxed, stamped, measured, numbered, assessed, licensed, authorized, admonished, prevented, forbidden, reformed, corrected, punished. It is, under pretext of public utility, and in the name of the general interest, to be place under contribution, drilled, fleeced, exploited, monopolized, extorted from, squeezed, hoaxed, robbed; then, at the slightest resistance, the first word of complaint, to be repressed, fined, vilified, harassed, hunted down, abused, clubbed, disarmed, bound, choked, imprisoned, judged, condemned, shot, deported, sacrificed, sold, betrayed; and to crown all, mocked, ridiculed, derided, outraged, dishonored. That is government; that is its justice; that is its morality." From "General Idea of the Revolution in the Nineteenth Century, translated by John Beverly Robinson (London: Freedom Press, 1923), pp. 293-294." — Pierre Joseph Proudhon

"Democracy is two wolves and a lamb voting on what to have for lunch. Liberty is a well-armed lamb contesting the vote"-- Benjamin Franklin (1706-1790)

"Government is not reason, it is not eloquence, it is force; like fire, a troublesome servant and a fearful master. Never for a moment should it be left to irresponsible action." - George Washington

"Among the many infirmities of age is omniscience." - Thomas Sowell, Random Thoughts

"A democracy cannot exist as a permanent form of government. It can only exist until the voters discover that they can vote themselves largesse from the public treasury. From that moment on, the majority always votes for the candidates promising the most benefits from the public treasury with the result that a democracy always collapses over loose fiscal policy, always followed by a dictatorship. The average age of the world's greatest civilizations has been 200 years." - Anonymous (although see: "The Truth About Tytler" )

"...if you STILL believe that our Constitution isn't under attack, well, then you've probably never read it." - Glenn Beck - 8/18/2009

"There exists a law, not written down anywhere, but inborn in our hearts; a law which comes to us not by training or custom or reading but by derivation and absorption and adoption from nature itself; a law which has come to us not from theory but from practice, not by instruction but by natural intuition. I refer to the law which lays it down that, if our lives are endangered by plots or violence or armed robbers or enemies, any and every method of protecting ourselves is morally right." - Cicero - approx. 2000 years ago

"The heart of the wise inclines to the right, but the heart of the fool to the left." - Ecc 10:2 , King Soloman, NIV

"The people who go around talking about their soft hearts - I admire them for their soft hearts, but unfortunately it very often extends to their heads as well." Milton Friedman, 1912 - 2006. For the full quote:

http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=6813529239937418232&

"Friend, you cannot legislate the poor into freedom by legislating the wealthy out of freedom. And what one person receives without working for, another person must work for without receiving. The government can’t give to anybody anything that the government does not first take from somebody. And when half of the people get the idea they don’t have to work because the other half’s going to take care of them, and when the other half get the idea it does no good to work because somebody’s going to get what I work for, that, dear friend, is about the end of any nation.” - Dr. Adrian Rogers, 1931 - 2005

"As the expression goes, when a Republican becomes a Democrat, the average IQ increases on both sides of the aisle." -Ann Coulter, Guilty - Liberal "Victims" and their Assault on America, 2008

I enjoy the humor I find in daily life. Here's the latest example. Yesterday I replaced a burned-out belt on our vacuum cleaner. I found this on the belt wrapper: "IMPORTANT: Turn vacuum cleaner OFF before replacing belt." I'm so glad I read that, as it kept me from perhaps loosing fingers trying to put the belt on a rapidly-spining motor shaft and connecting the belt to a round beater bar wrapped with vicious brushes!

"The man who is a pessimist before 48 knows too much; if he is an optimist after it, he knows too little." - Mark Twain's Notebook, 1902-1903

"Suppose you were an idiot. And suppose you were a member of Congress. But I repeat myself." - Mark Twain, a Biography

"Ought not then the right of each successive generation to be guaranteed against the dissipations and corruptions of those preceding, by a fundamental provision in our Constitution? And if that has not been made, does it exist the less, there being between generation and generation as between nation and nation no other law than that of nature? And is it the less dishonest to do what is wrong because not expressly prohibited by written law? Let us hope our moral principles are not yet in that stage of degeneracy, and that in instituting the system of finance to be hereafter pursued we shall adopt the only safe, the only lawful and honest one, of borrowing on such short terms of reimbursement of interest and principal as will fall within the accomplishment of our own lives." --Thomas Jefferson to John Wayles Eppes, 1813. ME 13:357

Paraphrase: It is immoral to pass national debt on to our children's generation.

"I am for doing good to the poor, but I differ in opinion of the means. -- I think the best way of doing good to the poor, is not making them easy in poverty, but leading or driving them out of it. In my youth I travelled much, and I observed in different countries, that the more public provisions were made for the poor, the less they provided for themselves, and of course became poorer. And, on the contrary, the less was done for them, the more they did for themselves, and became richer." — Benjamin Franklin - 1766

http://www.historycarper.com/resources/twobf3/price.htm

Wednesday, September 7, 2016

Happy Birthday, Buddy Holly!

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